It’s a cold, rainy, blustery day today in Chillan. Since we’re enjoying the week off in honor of the 18th, the independence day, it’s a nice day to stay in pajamas and never leave the warmth of your bed. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that it’s about 55 degrees outside (yeah. . .I just had to look it up online in order to find out how to convert the celsius to fahrenheit) and it’s usually a little cooler inside. I’m looking forward to the day when I don’t need to wear two (sometimes three) pairs of socks, two pairs of pants, and who knows how many shirts. Last night I came home and put on a winter hat for awhile because I just couldn’t warm up. . .too bad it gets way colder than this in the winter time (June, July, and August).
Sooo where should I start? Perhaps with the Bio-dance class I experienced last Wednesday. Some of you would love Bio-dance (Ashley Boone, I especially think of you). I, for one, find it a little strange. Bio-dance is a class that’s offered here at the center, and apparently it’s somewhat popular here. I don’t really know much about it, so all I can do is explain the class that I participated in. Basically, everyone in the group comes in, takes off their shoes, and sits on a giant rug on the floor. When everyone’s in the room, the teacher shuts the doors so as to create a safe space (sort of like being in a CLC or something), and people who aren’t in the class aren’t allowed to wander in and out. The women then take turns sharing what they experienced in the previous class, and then the class activities begin. Basically, it’s about expressing yourself through dance. There are different activities, some individually-oriented and others more group- or community-oriented. The women seem to really enjoy it and they’ve created a great feeling of community within the group, but it was a little weird for an outsider to join in. The other thing that made the class strange for me was that the teacher used some music from the States, which, being in English, I could clearly understand. I have to admit that I was a little confused when a song all about loneliness came on when the women were doing a community-oriented activity. I’m doubtful that I’ll be returning to that class anytime soon, especially since the music kept making me laugh at inappropriate times, but it seems like the women really enjoy it and will be going at it for awhile.
On that same Wednesday I started to get a cold, which really sucked. Thursday the cold only got worse, and I think I slept more of that day than I was awake. When I went to an art class on Thursday at the house, one of the women who had been in bio-dance with me asked me if I was feeling worse than the previous day. I admitted that yes, I felt pretty sick and was struggling just to be out of my bed. In typical Chilean fashion, her response was that she noticed that in class the day before I had stepped off the rug onto the tile floor while wearing only my socks, and she KNEW I was going to get even sicker after that. I’ve already been warned enough that Chileans (or at least the women who come to the house) believe that walking around barefoot or in your socks on a cold tile floor means that you most definitely WILL get sick, no question about it. Wet hair is another really bad idea. It’s best to not let anyone know if you choose to not blow dry your hair after you shower, or you’ll get a good long lecture afterwards about how sick you’re going to be. The temperature has everything to do with getting cold. When I was sick, nobody cared. . .they all still kissed me on the cheek everytime they entered the room, it wasn’t a big deal to drink out of the same glass as me or pick up food off my plate. . .definitely not like when someone is sick in the States.
On Friday Caryn and I went with Mimi to Mass at the local chapel because there was a little social gathering afterwards to begin celebrating for the 18th. The priest is new to the area. He’s really young (36) and super animated. He does random things, like in the middle of his homily he asked Mimi who Caryn and I were, so then she had to introduce us to everyone as he asked questions about whether or not we could even understand him since he said we looked like we didn’t know what was going on. He randomly throws in a word in English, which can be a little strange and sort of overwhelming when everyone in the church turns and stares at you. After Mass everyone went to eat empanadas (meat filled pastries) and drink ponche (a mixture of white wine and peaches), which was only the beginning of many many many many empanadas in the past few days. That same night there were a bunch of women at the house making pino, the onion-meat mixture that would go in the empanadas to be made the next day. They made enough for about 400 empanadas, and let me tell you, the house still sometimes smells like onions to me.
Beginning in the morning on Saturday women were here working all day to make empanadas for the evening party. We were actually able to help with this process, rolling out the maza (dough stuff) and filling it with the pino (meat mixture). Even Caryn, the vegetarian helped fill them.

It was a fun day, but definitely a long day of work. For lunch we once again ate empanadas.

In the evening, Bridget, Caryn, and I put on the chinita dresses that had been lent to us so that we could “fully” participate in the party. I felt a little (and by a little I actually mean a lot) ridiculous wearing this traditional Chilean dress, but everyone seemed to get a kick out of it.
We basically just sat around and ate more empanadas that night (we switched it up and ate some fried cheese empanadas this time and anticuchos, long sticks full of meat). We had beautiful live music for awhile, and then switched over to a DJ with tons of cueca music. Oh, cueca. So much cueca. I’m not sure that I ever want to hear another cueca song again, but somehow I doubt that’s possible. All three of us each danced at least one cueca, and let me tell you, I think we were all pretty relieved when the music switched over to salsa and merengue and cumbia. The party lasted until about 3am, and the house was a disaster afterwards. . .
On Sunday Caryn and I went with Bridget’s host family to our first asado, or large barbecue with tons and tons of meat. Tons. Caryn, who has been a vegetarian for at least five years, even participated in the meat-eating activities. Then, what do you know, we ate empanadas once again.
I swear, it’s just a week of partying. Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday were national holidays, so nobody had to work, and most schools are actually closed Thursday and Friday. Monday night we ate, can you believe it, empanadas once again at a woman’s house around the corner. Afterwards they invited us to her brother’s house for continued celebrations. Everyone went, including the daughters who are only 10 and 12, even though we didn’t leave for the brother’s house until about midnight. It was a good night of drinking wine, sitting around listening to everyone else sing Chilean songs while two of the brothers played guitar, and then dancing to whatever music came on. We finally left around 3:30am, but it seemed like everyone else would continue for quite awhile.
Yesterday we hung out in the campo most of the day at the local school there, which 22 children attend up to sixth grade with one teacher. There were some interesting activities, from horseback riding to three-legged races to tug of war to catch the chicken/pig and win it. We had another asado at night with plenty of meat again, but thankfully for once we actually came back at a decent hour.

Who knows what’s in store for us next, but today we graciously declined an invitation for lunch. . .I think we just needed a rest from all this constant activity. For the most part, the language seems to be getting a bit easier and I’m feeling more and more comfortable in my surroundings, but it is really hard to get used to the constant cold.